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How to Get
a Good Reading

Try to put your mind at ease and relax before you seek a medium's help. This creates a better atmosphere for the reading and makes it easier for Spirit to make contact. However, taking alcohol, non-prescription drugs or a lot of caffeine prior to or during a reading is not acceptable to Spirit or the medium.

Allow the medium to work with Spirit in her individual manner and personal style. Don't expect your most pressing problems to be discussed first or all at once. Let the reading evolve.

Spirit provides evidence of identity in many ways. It can be by name, description, incidents, relationships, personality traits etc. Be willing to verify such evidential information so the medium can proceed to the message that is to be given.

When the medium gives correct information let her know. Don't attempt to confuse her. Be fair. This reading is for your best interests, not a test for the medium's abilities.

Arguing or wanting things done your way or looking for a specific name or word as proof make it difficult for the medium to function effectively and may lead to failure.

The understanding of the message or the meaning of specific information may come at the end of the reading or at a later time after you have had a chance to think about it. So don't be quick to say "no" to what is given by the medium.

The true success of a reading is not always measured by prophecy or 100% accuracy but by the guidance it provides. Prediction is possible, but you have the power to change coming events. Free will and free choice overrule whatever predictions that may be given.

A good reading may explain the philosophy of harmonious living and be meaningful in some way to the recipient. Mediumship is not fortune telling.

If you have a question, or questions, write them down before you see the medium. You can also meditate on them in advance to get an answer. No spirit claims to have an answer on the spur of the moment. After all, you are communicating with people.

The medium realizes when the energy has left. Don't try to prolong the reading. You are always welcome to come again.

Obligatory Disclaimer: Messages coming from the spirit world, although pure and inspired, must be given through an imperfect human channel. They should therefore be received with love, yet also with a spirit of personal responsibility. Please keep in mind that spirit communication is for the purpose of guidance, inspiration and encouragement, and NOT as a prescription or solution to personal problems or life-changing decision-making.
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